+ Raya +

Raya datang lagi.
Di kesempatan ni, sye nak ucapkan Selamat Hari Raya, maaf zahir dan batin kpd semua kenalan, rakan taulan, sahabat handai dan sedara mara.
Kalau ade terkasar bahasa, terguris hati, tertunding jari, sye mintak maaf dr hujung rambut ke hujung kaki.
Ikhlas dr kami sekeluarga.
Yang balik jauh2 tu pulak, hati2, Ops Sikap 24 menanti!
Harapnya semua org dpt sambut Raya yg diberkati, semoga gembira2 selalu!



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+ Life +

It had been a while.
Uno momento please..... *gruuurgrruuuuuu*
Okay, all dust have been vacuumed cleaned! TQVM! =)

I had been a bit busy lately, with lil daughter and such.
Now that the little one had learned how to crawl and pick herself up, there isn't a moment of still activity for she is so eager to move around this small house of ours. Luckily, this house is small enough or else I will loose a tad bit of patience when she couldn't stop moving.
And, when she is finally asleep, I would be to dead tired to even switch on the laptop. *sigh* I feel so damn old.

No, I am not complaining.
Just saying. =)
Even though this is the fasting month, and although I have lost 5kgs for the 1st week alone *for being tired*, I am not complaining.
This is who I am now, this is my job, and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

Which bring me to what I would really want to say today.
They say that being a mother is a big responsibility; yes they are true.
You have to be the 1st one up in the house and the last one to go to bed by the end of the day; this is also true.
I admit that it is a tiring job, even more tiring than your 9 to 5 jobs.
Hey, and I only have 1 child, think about those with 5 children. *shudder*
However, do use your brain. In most cases, it is your decision to bear a child. You decide to get married, you decide to bring another life into this world. You decide to start a family.
Hence, be responsible on your decision. Doesn't matter whether you are expecting those changes in your life or not, but when you decide, you be a woman and face the consequences. *not that having a child is such a crime that need forceful significance* But hey, do not be lazy, do not let go of that responsibilities that come with your decision.
When I look around and see miserable mothers, those who said that they regret thier desicion to have a child, those who grumble about how thier life have changes completely; it makes me mad. Like I said before. BE A WOMAN! This is a human life we are talking about. Even if you do not know much about raising a child well, *which also applies to me*, all you have to do is to try your best; to nurture for the child that YOU yourself have decide to bring to this world of ours. Don't be stupid, don't be mean.

That is all I have to say. Think about it.

xoxo
Deez


P/S: pretty little things in life are always taken for granted

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